Top 10 Meet Cutes for Valentine's Day

Where would a classic romcom be without a meet cute - that moment when fate brings two strangers together in an unlikely encounter that changes their lives forever? This Valentine's Day, why not settle down with a romantic comedy from Cinema Paradiso and reminisce about meeting your own soulmate? Even, if you're single, try renting one of the films on our list to see if you can pick up any handy hints. You never know, you might even have a meet cute of your own on the way to the postbox to return your rentals!

No one's entirely sure where the term 'meet cute' came from. What seems to be agreed is that it was Hollywood shorthand for the scene in which the male and female leads first bump into each other in a romantic comedy.

As mismatched couples were a key ingredient of most screwball comedies in the 1930s, it's safe to assume that the phrase originated during the writing of gems like Ernst Lubitsch's Bluebeard's Eighth Wife (1938), a remake of Sam Wood's 1923 silent Gloria Swanson vehicle that was scripted by Billy Wilder and Charles Brackett. In order to bring Gary Cooper and Claudette Colbert together on the French Riviera, Wilder (who kept a special meet cute notebook) drew on his own sleeping attire preferences in order to have millionaire Coop try to buy a pyjama top and fellow shopper Colbert offer to help him out by purchasing the bottoms.

Sadly, this Lubitsch masterpiece isn't currently available to rent. But you can hook up with the scene again, courtesy of veteran screenwriter Arthur Abbott (Eli Wallach), who recycles its premise while telling newspaper columnist Iris Simpkins (Kate Winslet) about the perfect love scene in Nancy Myers's The Holiday (2006). This has a meet cute all of its own, of course, as Iris's brother, Graham (Jude Law), drunkenly bangs on her door in the middle of the night without knowing that she had contracted a house swap with movie trailer producer, Amanda Woods (Cameron Diaz).

By all accounts, the first printed usage of the term comes in The Case of the Solid Key (1941), a locked room mystery by Anthony Boucher, in which an actress named Sarah Plunk tries to cool the ardour of writer Norman Harker with the lines: 'Last night was nice, but this is today. We met cute, as they say in story conferences; but people don't live cute. You can't be high-romantical all day; not if you're trying to work.'

Despite his popularity as a whodunit and science fiction writer, Boucher (who was actually called William White and also used the pen name H.H. Holmes) never saw any of his books adapted for the screen. By contrast, playwright George Axelrod was a favourite with studio producers, even though he lampooned Hollywood hype in Will Success Spoil Rock Hunter? Filmed by Frank Tashlin in 1957, this canny satire includes the following speech by advertising executive, Irving La Salle, Jr. (John Williams): 'Dear boy, the beginning of a movie is childishly simple. The boy and girl meet. The only important thing to remember is that - in a movie - the boy and the girl must meet in some cute way. They cannot meet like normal people at, perhaps, a cocktail party or some other social function. No. It is terribly important that they meet cute.'

Critics have found the term very useful, including Roger Ebert, who confessed to having devised a meet cute of his own in the screenplay for Russ Meyer's Beyond the Valley of the Dolls (1970) in order to bring two characters together at a wild party. In modern romcoms, such happenstances often feel cornily contrived. But the best are staged with a degree of wit and winsomeness that makes them impossible to resist.

Later this year, Kaley Cuoco and Pete Davidson are due to star in Alex Lehmann's Meet Cute. But such meetings are not the exclusive preserve of romcoms. Just ask Leonardo DiCaprio, who became involved in two of the best, when he gazed at Claire Danes through a fish tank in Baz Luhrmann's William Shakespeare's Romeo + Juliet (1996) and saved Kate Winslet from a watery demise in James Cameron's Titanic (1997).

  • Bringing Up Baby (1938)

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    One of the greatest meet cutes cues up the action in perhaps the finest screwball comedy. Taking a break from piecing together a Brontosaurus skeleton, museum palaeontologist David Huxley (Cary Grant) is playing golf with a potential sponsor when free-spirited heiress Susan Vance (Katharine Hepburn) plays his ball. Unconcerned, she also drives off in his car, with the hapless Huxley standing on the running board. Carole Lombard was initially sought for Susan, while Grant was only hired after the producer nixed director Howard Hawks's suggestions of Harold Lloyd and Ronald Colman and Robert Montgomery, Fredric March and Ray Milland all turned down the chance to co-star with Hepburn, a leopard named Baby and a terrier called Skippy, who was played by George, who was best known for essaying Asta with William Powell and Myrna Loy in the Thin Man series (1934-47), all seven of which are available from Cinema Paradiso.

  • Annie Hall (1977)

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    Having played mixed doubles together, Annie Hall (Diane Keaton) and Alvy Singer (Woody Allen) meet in the foyer after changing. In a delightfully awkward exchange, Annie finds herself burbling ('la-di-dah') as she tries to make small talk about Alvy's racket skills and whether he needs a lift uptown. As former lovers, Allen and Keaton bring an easy naturalism to a scene that became all the more iconic because of what the latter was wearing: a white men's shirt, baggy beige trousers, a black waistcoat, a navy tie with white polka dots and a black bolero perched on the back of her head. Keaton deservedly won the Oscar for Best Actress, while Allen was rewarded for his direction and co-written screenplay, as this kooky love story also took the award for Best Picture. A discarded whodunit subplot was later recycled for Manhattan Murder Mystery (1993).

    Director:
    Woody Allen
    Cast:
    Woody Allen, Diane Keaton, Tony Roberts
    Genre:
    Classics, Romance
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  • When Harry Met Sally (1989)

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    Having just graduated from the University of Chicago in 1977, Harry Burns (Billy Crystal) and Sally Albright (Meg Ryan) meet for the first time for an 18-hour drive to NewYork, during which they argue about his contention that men and women can never be friends because 'the sex part gets in the way'. The byplay between the leads is superb, but it's Nora Ephron's Oscar-nominated screenplay that makes the exchange so eloquently amusing and enables director Rob Reiner to keep the pair bumping into each other over the next 11 years before they finally realise they're destined to be together. Co-starring with Tom Hanks, Ryan would reunite with Ephron for Sleepless in Seattle (1993) and You've Got Mail (1998), which respectively riffed on Leo McCarey's An Affair to Remember (1957) and Ernst Lubitsch's The Shop Around the Corner (1940), which all contain meet cutes of their own.

    Director:
    Rob Reiner
    Cast:
    Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, Carrie Fisher
    Genre:
    Comedy, Romance
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  • Out of Sight (1998)

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    In the wrong place at the wrong time, federal marshall Karen Sisco (Jennifer Lopez) is bundled into the boot of a car during a Florida prison break and finds herself spooning with Jack Foley (George Clooney) during a high-speed getaway. Refusing to be intimidated or charmed, she accuses Foley of thinking he's Clyde Barrow before they embark upon a discussion of three Faye Dunaway movies, Bonnie and Clyde (Arthur Penn, 1967), Three Days of the Condor (Sydney Pollack, 1975) and Network (Sidney Lumet, 1976). Sandra Bullock was originally in the frame for Steven Soderbergh's adaptation of Elmore Leonard's hard-boiled thriller, but Lopez excels in this claustrophobic scene, in which she dismisses Clooney's contention that he could pick her up in a bar and complains that Dunaway and Robert Redford get together too conveniently in Pollack's gripping take on James Grady's thriller, Six Days of the Condor.

  • Notting Hill (1999)

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    There are two meet cutes for the price of one in screenwriter Richard Curtis's classic romcom. William Thacker (Hugh Grant) first meets film star Anna Scott (Julia Roberts) when she visits his travel bookshop and he waffles about guides to Turkey while she browses. But he gets to bump into her again minutes later, when he spills an orange juice over her white top and persuades her to pop into his nearby house in order to clean up. Having worked so successfully with Grant on Four Weddings and a Funeral (1994), Mike Newell was offered the chance to direct, but Roger Michell landed the gig after Newell opted to make Pushing Tin (1999). Curtis slipped a bit of product placement into the closing scene by having Grant read the novel he was adapting for his next picture, Louis de Bernières's Captain Corelli's Mandolin (John Madden, 2001).

    Director:
    Roger Michell
    Cast:
    Hugh Grant, Julia Roberts, Richard McCabe
    Genre:
    Comedy, Romance
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  • Bridget Jones's Diary (2001)

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    The New Year turkey curry buffet in Sharon Maguire's adaptation of Helen Fielding's bestseller affords viewers the chance to witness a re-meet cute. As her mum introduces Bridget (Renée Zellwegger) to Mark Darcy (Colin Firth), she reminds him that Bridget had run naked across the lawn while playing in his paddling pool. However, it's Bridget's torrent of banal chit-chat that prompts Darcy to inform his own mother (within Bridget's earshot) that he doesn't want a blind date with 'some verbally incontinent spinster, who smokes like a chimney, drinks like a fish and dresses like her mother'. Seems to have worked out well in the end, though, as Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason (2004) and Bridget Jones's Baby (2016) duly followed. Zellwegger received Oscar, BAFTA and Golden Globe nominations. Yet, Toni Collette, Helena Bonham Carter, Cate Blanchett, Emily Watson, Rachel Weisz, Cameron Diaz and Kate Winslet were all considered before her.

  • Maid in Manhattan (2002)

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    Not all meet cutes happen spontaneously. Some need intricate setting up, like the one in Wayne Wang's romcom, which sees single mom and chambermaid Marisa Ventura (Jennifer Lopez) try on an expensive coat belonging to socialite Caroline Lane (Natasha Richardson), just as, elsewhere in the hotel, her 10 year-old son (Tyler Posey) befriends senatorial candidate Christopher Marshall (Ralph Fiennes) and brings him back to the room that his mom is cleaning to ask if he can walk Marshall's dog. Seeing Marisa in the Dolce & Gabbana, he naturally presumes she's Caroline and yet another screen romance begins with a slight misunderstanding. Teenpic maestro John Hughes was originally slated to direct Hilary Swank before Lopez came aboard. She wound up with a Golden Raspberry Award for Worst Actress, while Time magazine included this in its Top 10 Worst Chick Flicks. But the meet cute's a well-polished gem.

  • How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)

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    When it comes to convoluted set-ups, nothing tops the preamble in Donald Petrie's romcom, as Andie Anderson (Kate Hudson) embarks upon an assignment for Composure magazine to snare and alienate a man in 10 days, while advertising executive Benjamin Barry (Matthew McConaughey) has to show his boss that he knows enough about romance to land a prestigious diamond campaign. So, when Ben's workmates choose Andie from across a bar as the girl he has to woo, she decides he's the perfect dupe for her article and goes along with his spiel during a slickly scripted first conversation in which each communicates in single-word questions and answers. This was originally going to be a Gwyneth Paltrow vehicle before she decamped to Bruno Barreto's View From the Top (2003). Ironically, it was on Paltrow's Goop podcast that Hudson claimed McConaughey had been a bad kisser in Andy Tennant's Fool's Gold (2008).

  • Just Like Heaven (2005)

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    Forever in search of novelty, screenwriters occasionally ask audiences to accept somewhat far-fetched premises. Take the first meeting in a San Francisco apartment between widower David Abbott (Mark Ruffalo) and doctor Elizabeth Masterson (Reese Witherspoon) in Mark Waters's undervalued romcom. As David shuffles back from the fridge with another beer, he walks into a screaming Elizabeth, who clearly doesn't know that he has rented her home because she has been in a coma for several months after crashing her car en route to a blind date. This isn't the only spectral meet cute available from Cinema Paradiso, however, as Kate Andrich (Emilia Clarke) and Tom Webster (Henry Golding) discover in Paul Feig's Last Christmas (2019), which Emma Thompson and Greg Wise concocted from the Wham song of the same name and which includes a doozy of a meet cute involving a pooping bird.

    Director:
    Mark Waters
    Cast:
    Reese Witherspoon, Mark Ruffalo, Donal Logue
    Genre:
    Romance
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  • Trainwreck (2015)

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    Part of the genius of the movie meet cute is that there's often nothing cute about it. Few people make a worse first impression than hard-partying men's magazine writer Amy Townsend (Amy Schumer) in Judd Apatow's anti-romcom. Sent by S'nuff editor Dianna (Tilda Swinton) to profile sports doctor Aaron Conners (Bill Hader), Amy gets off to a dreadful start by failing to recognise basketball legend LeBron James in his office. But she compounds the problem by attempting to cover up her disinterest in sport by making up the names of the small-time teams she professes to prefer to the majors. And, to top it all off, she makes a clumsily racist remark and gets caught in a lie about having lots of Black friends. It's not exactly loathe at first sight, but it's a squirm-inducingly innovative way to bring together a mismatched couple. Screwball lives!

    Director:
    Judd Apatow
    Cast:
    Amy Schumer, Bill Hader, Brie Larson
    Genre:
    Comedy, Romance
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Cinema Paradiso's Meet Cute Checklist

It seems a shame to limit ourselves to a Top 10 when there are dozens of other memorable meet cutes in the Cinema Paradiso catalogue.

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CLASSICS

  1. Con artists Gaston (Herbert Marshall) and Lily (Miriam Hopkins) trying to fleece each other during a dinner date in  Trouble in Paradise  (Ernst Lubitsch, 1932)
  2. Runaway heiress Ellie Andrews (Claudette Colbert) is forced to share a bus seat with reporter Peter Warne (Clark Gable) in  It Happened One Night  (Frank Capra, 1934)
  3. Dale Tremont (Ginger Rogers) storms into the hotel room of Jerry Travers (Fred Astaire) to complain that his dancing is keeping her awake in  Top Hat  (Mark Sandrich, 1935)
  4. Socialite Irene Bullock (Carole Lombard) finds hobo Godfrey Smith (William Powell) on a rubbish dump during a scavenger hunt in  My Man Godfrey  (Gregory La Cava, 1936)
  5. Con artist Jean Harrington (Barbara Stanwyck) trips brewery heir Charles Pike (Henry Fonda) during an ocean voyage in  The Lady Eve  (Preston Sturges, 1941)
  6. Silent film star Don Lockwood (Gene Kelly) jumps into a passing car being driven by Kathy Selden (Debbie Reynolds) in order to escape from his fans in  Singin' in the Rain  (Gene Kelly and Stanley Donen, 1952)
  7. Fisherman Bruce Templeton (Rod Taylor) snags his hook on the mermaid costume being worn by Jennifer Nelson (Doris Day) in  The Glass Bottom Boat  (Frank Tashlin, 1966)
  8. Parisienne Nicole Bonnet (Audrey Hepburn) catches cat burglar Simon Dermott (Peter O'Toole) trying to purloin one of her forger father's paintings in  How to Steal a Million  (William Wyler, 1966)

MODERNS

  1. Decadent playboy Arthur Bach (Dudley Moore) prevents down-at-heel Linda Marolla (Liza Minnelli) from being arrested for shoplifting a tie in  Arthur  (Steve Gordon, 1981)
  2. Julie Nichols (Jessica Lange) helps Michael Dorsey (Dustin Hoffman) pick up some script pages while he is auditioning in drag as Dorothy Michaels for a soap opera part in  Tootsie  (Sydney Pollack, 1982)
  3. Samantha Baker (Molly Ringwald) has a close encounter with classmate Jake Ryan (Michael Schoeffling) when he picks up the questionnaire in which she has listed him as her dream crush in  Sixteen Candles  (John Hughes, 1984)
  4. It's lust at first sight when Loretta Castorini (Cher) visits Ronny Cammareri (Nicolas Cage) to invite him to her wedding to his estranged older brother, Johnny (Danny Aiello), in  Moonstruck  (Norman Jewison, 1987)
  5. Unable to handle his lawyer's car, wheeler dealer Edward Lewis (Richard Gere) hires Hollywood Boulevard prostitute Vivian Ward (Julia Roberts) to drive him back to his hotel in  Pretty Woman  (Garry Marshall, 1990)
  6. Stopping at some traffic lights, aspiring film-maker Lelaina Pierce (Winona Ryder) flicks a lit cigarette into the convertible being driven by cable TV executive Michael Grates (Ben Stiller) in  Reality Bites  (Ben Stiller, 1994)
  7. An arguing German couple prompts Céline (Julie Delpy) to change seats on a train to Budapest and sit opposite Jesse (Ethan Hawke) in  Before Sunrise  (Richard Linklater, 1995)
  8. Architect Alex Whitman (Matthew Perry) meets photographer Isabel Fuentes (Salma Hayek) when she pushes to the front of the queue for a restaurant bathroom in  Fools Rush In  (Andy Tennant, 1997)

MILLENNIALS

  1. Having caught her heel in a manhole cover, Mary Fiore (Jennifer Lopez) is plucked out of the path of a runaway dumpster by paediatrician Steve Edison (Matthew McConaughey) in  The Wedding Planner  (Adam Shankman, 2001)
  2. Harvard Law newcomer Elle Woods (Reese Witherspoon) slumps on to a bench and gets some kindly advice on handling pompous professors from law tutor Emmett Richmond (Luke Wilson) in  Legally Blonde  (Robert Luketic, 2001)
  3. In Bloomingdale's, Christmas shoppers Jonathan Trager (John Cusack) and Sara Thomas (Kate Beckinsale) reach for the same pair of black cashmere gloves in  Serendipity  (Peter Chelsom, 2001)
  4. Toula Portokalos (Nia Vardalos) is so smitten when teacher Ian Miller (John Corbett) comes into her family's restaurant that she burbles about becoming his private Greek statue in  My Big Fat Greek Wedding  (Joel Zwick, 2002)
  5. New Downing Street employee Natalie (Martine McCutcheon) accidentally calls incoming prime minister David (Hugh Grant) by his first name and promptly swears, several times, in  Love Actually  (Richard Curtis, 2003)
  6. Unaware that sixtysomething record producer Harry Sanborn (Jack Nicholson) is dating her half-his-age daughter, Erica Barry (Diane Keaton) calls the cops to report an intruder in  Something's Gotta Give  (Nancy Myers, 2003)
  7. Tax lawyer Peter Sanderson (Steve Martin) discovers online hook-up Charlene Morton (Queen Latifah) is a convicted felon during a disastrous first date in  Bringing Down the House  (Adam Shankman, 2003)
  8. Henry Roth (Adam Sandler) is so taken by Lucy Whitmore (Drew Barrymore) building cabins with waffles that he vows to keep meeting cute with her after discovering she has anterograde amnesia in  50 First Dates  (Peter Segal, 2004)
  9. Date doctor Alex Hitchens (Will Smith) rescues gossip columnist Sara Melas (Eva Mendes) from some unwanted attention by pretending to be her boyfriend in  Hitch  (Andy Tennant, 2005)
  10. Florist Luce (Lena Headey) helps newlywed Rachel (Piper Perabo) fish her wedding ring out of the punch bowl in  Imagine Me and You  (Ol Parker, 2005)
  11. Sportswear designer Drew Baylor (Orlando Bloom) is upgraded to first-class when flight attendant Claire (Kirsten Dunst) informs him he's the sole passenger on a 747 flight to Kentucky in  Elizabethtown  (Cameron Crowe, 2005)
  12. Gary Grabowski (Vince Vaughn) buys Brooke Meyers (Jennifer Aniston) a hot dog at a baseball game in  The Break-Up  (Peyton Reed, 2006)
  13. Thirtysomething Tripp (Matthew McConaughey) meets Paula (Sarah Jessica Parker) when his parents hire her to convince him to move out of the family home in  Failure to Launch  (Tom Dey, 2006)
  14. Cursed to be born with a pig's nose, Penelope (Christina Ricci) develops a relationship with undercover photographer Max (James McAvoy) through a one-way mirror in  Penelope  (Mark Palansky, 2006)
  15. Los Angeles reporter Alison Scott (Katherine Heigl) and Canadian slacker Ben Stone (Seth Rogen) try to catch a bartender's eye at precisely the same moment in  Knocked Up  (Judd Apatow, 2007)
  16. Serial bridesmaid Jane Nichols (Katherine Heigl) wakes up to find Kevin Doyle (James Marsden) looking down at her after she is knocked out while trying to catch a bridal bouquet in  27 Dresses  (Anne Fletcher, 2008)
  17. A computer error results in Joy McNally (Cameron Diaz) and Jack Fuller (Ashton Kutcher) being given the same hotel room in  What Happens in Vegas  (Tom Vaughan, 2008)
  18. Feasibility expert Lucy Hill (Renée Zellwegger) gets off to a bad start with union rep Ted Mitchell (Harry Connick, Jr.) after a mutual friend invites them to dinner in  New in Town  (Jonas Elmer, 2009)
  19. Estate agent Conor (Bradley Cooper) allows Anna (Scarlett Johansson) to go ahead of him at a grocery checkout in  He's Just Not That Into You  (Ken Kwapis, 2009)
  20. TV producer Abby Richter (Katherine Heigl) is so dismayed by chat show host Mike Chadway (Gerard Butler) and his views on relationships that she calls his phone-in in  The Ugly Truth  (Robert Luketic, 2009)
  21. Desperate to propose to her commitment-phobic boyfriend on 29 February, Anna Brady (Amy Adams) asks Irish publican Declan O'Callaghan (Matthew Goode) to drive her from Dingle to Dublin in  Leap Year  (Anand Tucker, 2010)
  22. Baker Annie Walker (Kristen Wiig) meets Wisconsin State Patrol officer Nathan Rhodes (Chris O'Dowd) when he pulls her over for driving with a broken tail light in  Bridesmaids  (Paul Feig, 2011)
  23. Bipolar divorcé Pat Solitano (Bradley Cooper) wants widow Tiffany Maxwell to know he's not flirting with her when they're introduced by her brother-in-law in  Silver Linings Playbook  (David O. Russell, 2012)
  24. Sharing an elevator, Summer Finn (Zooey Deschanel) tells Tom Hansen (Joseph Gordon-Levitt) that she loves The Smiths when she overhears the music blaring from his headphones in  500 Days of Summer  (Marc Webb, 2013)
  25. Masseuse Eva (Julia Louis-Dreyfus) concurs with single dad Albert (James Gandolfini) that there are no attractive people at the party they're attending in  Enough Said  (Nicole Holofcener, 2013)
  26. Struggling stand-up comedian Kumail (Kumail Nanjiani) confronts Emily (Zoe Kazan) at the bar after she heckles him on stage in  The Big Sick  (Michael Showalter, 2017)